Thursday, November 5, 2009

cute- i thought they were gay

WHAT IF THE MAJORITY TOLD YOU YOUR MARRIAGE IS VOIDED??!!

Sometimes, making laws by majority rule is plain wrong and hurtful. i cannot imagine the pain and suffering that married gay couples in maine and california must feel after being told that it is legal and right to marry and then to be told that your fellow citizens have changed their minds and have determined that you are not equal in their eyes and do not have the same rights and obligations as they do.

I have heard the arguments for denining gay people the right to marry, but we all know that these reasons are nothing short of ideas based on ignorance, hate, bigotry, or religious intolerance.

how i choose to show my devotion to the person i love is not and should never be up to others to decide. it is my god given right.

i watched the victory party of the "yes on 1" campaign and if i didn't know better- it seemed that they had won a mega-million lottery prize- instead of having just denied thousands of fellow citizens the same basic rights that they enjoy. they did not see these fellow citizens as being someone's brother, sister, uncle, niece, mother, father or even grandparent. they only saw them as sub-humans, as not worthy of equal rights.

What i have always proposed to begin to overcome this ignorance and hate is to publicly come out to family, friends, co-workers, and anybody within earshot so that next time someone calls out "fag" or demeans gays- someone will think-"wait, they are talking about someone i know" and hopefully stand up to the prejudgice.

Wednesday, November 4, 2009

WHERE DID THE COWBOYS GO??

when i was a wee little boy, i would sit in front of our family "color" tv(well actually it was a grainy black and white tv that had this plastic multi-colored sheet that you attached to the front of the tv to make it color--REALLY)and watch tons of cowboy/western tv shows. we would go to the drive-in movie park and sit thru an all-nite marathon western nite. its interesting and kinda sad that young kids nowadays don't get to see any westerns or even war movies anymore.

so i will be posting short clips that i find while cruising the internets and post them.

this is from THE LONE RANGER AND HIS SIDE KICK TONTO--enjoy

Tuesday, November 3, 2009

ONE BILLIONAIRE WINS- ANOTHER LOOSES- GAYS WIN ONE-PROBABLY LOOSE ANOTHER

i am yet again saddened by my fellow Americans who continue to refuse to grant gay Americans equal rights. it seems that marriage rights for all Maine residents will go down to defeat and in Olympia, Wa.- it seems that expanded gay domestic partnership rights will pass.
I AM SADDENED AND PISSED THAT NO ONE FROM THE WHITE HOUSE VOICED SUPPORT FOR OUR RIGHTS. THIS IS THE SECOND TIME THAT PEOPLE OF A STATE- CALIFORNIA BEING THE 1ST- VOTE TO TAKE AWAY OUR RIGHT TO MARRY.

as for the races for governor of Virginia and New Jersey--i think it was pretty much common knowledge that McDonnell would win big for the Republicans in Virginia. As for Governor Corzine who spent like a gazillion bucks-really closer to 200 million to stay in off-in New Jersey, i'm really kinda glad that he got his rich booty handed to him on a Dixie paper plate by a rather chubby guy by the name of Christie.

The other millionaire who ran for re election was New York City mayor Bloomberg going for his 3rd term. He also has spent close to 20 million bucks staying in office. And though he will win tonite--he came close to also loosing his rich ass to a somewhat known democract named Thompson.

The only really bright spot in all of this seems to be in the unlikely place of New York district 23. there a right wing Repub. by the name of Hoffman -endorsed by the likes of ex-gov Palin and others of like mind- seems to be actually getting the crap beat out of him by the democrat, Owens. it seems that this particular district was heavily conservative and went for Obama last year and seemed to be going for Hoffman in the polling.

JUST SAW THE LATEST FROM MAINE-FOR GAY MARRIAGE-48% AGAINST-52% WITH 76% REPORTING.

YUMMY YUMMY YUMMY-


Gnocchi with Caramelized Brussels Sprouts and Pecans
serves 4 hearty appetites

* 2 ounces thick cut, smoked bacon
* 2 tablespoons olive oil
* 3 garlic gloves, smashed a bit but left whole
* 2 pounds Brussels sprouts, outer leaves trimmed and larger sprouts cut in half
* 1/4 to 1/2 cup water
* salt and pepper to taste
* 1 pound gnocchi
* 1/4 cup reserved pasta water
* 1/2 cup toasted pecans, chopped
* 1 teaspoon fresh thyme

1. In a skillet large enough to hold the Brussels sprouts in one layer, heat the olive oil to medium and saute the bacon with the garlic cloves until the garlic is lightly browned and the bacon is crisp, about 4 minutes. Remove the bacon from the skillet and set aside and discard the garlic cloves.
2. Raise the heat to medium high and add the sprouts to the pan, stirring to coat evenly with the olive oil. Leave the sprouts to cook undisturbed in a single layer for about five minutes, until they develop a deep brown, caramelized color. Stir to allow the other side of the sprouts to brown as well. Season with salt and freshly ground black pepper.
3. Deglaze the pan with 1/4 cup of water and stir well to loosen any caramelized bits on the bottom of the pan. Cover and reduce to a simmer.
4. Meanwhile bring a pot of water to boil for the gnocchi and cook according to package directions.
5. Test the sprouts for doneness by piercing with a sharp knife; they should be al dente, not mushy. Add more water and cook longer if needed. As soon as they are done, scoop the gnocchi out of the water with a slotted spoon and add to the pan with the Brussels sprouts.
6. Stir in the bacon, chopped pecans and thyme and turn the heat to high to thicken the sauce. Add a bit of reserved pasta water if necessary.
7. Taste for seasonings.
8. Serve and enjoy!

FROM CHEZ LOULOU

OMG



have a nice day

Monday, November 2, 2009

ELECTIONS FOR GAYS FOR ALL AMERICANS

Tuesday is election day in several parts across America and things are still pretty much up in the air in most all expect in Virginia where Republican gubernatorial nominee Bob McDonnel, is ahead of the Democratic nominee- Creigh Deeds. even though virginia went for Obama in the general election, its still a relatively "red state" and i don't think anyone really thought that Deeds had a great chance of winning.

its another thing in New Jersey where Democratic Gov. Jon Corzine and Republican Chris Christi(former U.S. Attorney) are running neck to neck with some polls going for Corzine and others for Christi. Christi has had a rather sloppy ride these past few months with his yes i did/no i didn't cause an accident. yes i did/no i didn't hit a guy on a motorcycle equivications. Hell, even his weight got drawn into the frey. i still believe that even though it seems that a lot of New Jersey voters don't like Corzine- they like Christi even less, and Corzine will pull out squeaker come tomorrow.

OF SPECIAL INTEREST TO ME AND ALL FAIR MINDED PEOPLE ARE THE ELECTIONS FOR MARRIAGE EQUALITY AND EQUAL PROTECTIONS FOR GAYS THAT ARE OCCURING IN THE STATE OF MAINE, THE CITY OF KALAMAZOO, MI AND THE STATE OF WASHINGTON.
as is always the case in fighting for our rights, we are up against the same dishonest, hateful, and just plain homophobic forces that prevailed in the california NO ON 8 REFERANDUM this past november.
its a toss up in all of these and it will come down to whether or not Americans in these areas finally want to put a stop to hate and bigotry.

this elderly vet. is a True American Hero

Truth To Power, In Person - The Daily Dish | By Andrew Sullivan



The Newest Deal relays a riveting story:
In a stunning move, Mahmoud Vahidnia (pictured right), a student from the prestigious Sharif university and winner of the International Math Olympics, directly confronted Supreme Leader Ali Khamenei during the question-and-answer portion of a conference that was being held [last Wednesday]. When Khamenei asked if the audience had any questions, Vahidnia stood up and answered, "Yes, I have some words with you.”
What followed was a 20 minute critique of both Khamenei and the Islamic Republic, coupled with interruptions by some of the Basij students supportive of the regime. Vahidnia criticized the propagandist nature of state media, the security climate stifling the country, censorship of the free press, the power structure of the Islamic Republic, and the very inability to criticize the Supreme Leader himself.
Persian2English provides a summarized translation of the encounter:
“Why can’t anyone in this country criticize you? Isn’t that ignorant? Do you think that you make no mistakes? Why have they made an idol out of you that is so unreachable and that nobody can challenge? I have never read an article about your performance in any newspaper because you have shut down all the media that is against you in the country. Why does national TV show all the events untruthfully? For example all the events after the election: why do you support them [national TV shows], when everyone knows they are lying? Since the president of national television is directly selected by you, you are thus responsible for all this.”
Khamenei dodged the questions and instead called Vahidnia dishonest. He claimed that he receives (and is receptive to) criticism every day, and that he always adjusts his behavior to account for errors. Soon thereafter, Khamenei departed behind a curtain before first receiving praise from a Basiji student in attendance. The prayer that Khamenei was scheduled to lead at the end of the ceremony did not occur amid his hasty departure. Vahidnia was reportedly detained by security officials soon after the event.
The dean of the university later claimed that Khamenei had given the student permission to speak out. According to Mowjcamp, the student was arrested.

this is from THE DAILY DISH

i am blown away by this act of courage from this young man who knows that he will be arrested and be dealt with in very harsh terms. my heart goes out to him and all the others who risk their lives defending their freedoms.
THIS IS PURE PURE COURAGE--WOW

R U IN FEAR OR IS IT JUST THE RIGHT WING LOONIES

it used to be that Americans were gun ho about everything and never feared anybody from the outside doing anything to us. now ever since 9/11-WE AMERICANS have become a nation of sissies and i don't mean the Gay kind. Representative Foxx of north carolina stated no less than 9 times that her constituants "feared" what "this house" is doing. By "this house"-she means the house of representatives that is controlled by the Democrats and along with that the Dem. controlled senate and the White House with that black president-Barack H. Obama.

Is she really saying that the good old boys from the south are soooo frightened that they are about to poop in their pants because of the passage of the health care bill now pending passage in the house? with all of their pistols and rifles and automatic weapons and yet they still tinkle in their overalls!!

if she is talking about the so-called "tea-baggers"- not to be confused with the origional tea baggers of the gay varity--that is not the impression i or anyone else would get from watching all the U-TUBE vids out there.. to me, they all looked to be pretty pissed off at the fact that this black person actually beat their chosen one-PALEN- AND NOW IS THE RULER OF THE FREE WORLD--OOPS SORRY- I MEAN THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA.

i wonder if any of her constituants are fearful that they will not be able to pay for BOTH rent AND health insurance?

i wonder if any of her constituants are fearful because their unemployment payments will run out next month?

i wonder if any of her constituants are fearful because they see no future for their children because they do not have access to higher education.

I WONDER IF ANY OF HER CONSTITUANTS ARE REALLY AWARE OF THE LIES AND DECEPTIONS AND BLATANT USE OF RACIAL FEELINGS THAT ARE USED BY THE LIKES OF REP. FOXX AND OTHERS ON THE RIGHT??

AND LASTLY, I WONDER IF HER CONSTITUANTS REALIZE THAT THEY ARE BUT PAWNS IN A GAME OF GOTCHA AND THAT THEIR ELECTED LEADERS ARE ONLY CONCERNED ABOUT KEEPING THEIR HIGH PAYING JOBS, THEIR GOVERNMENT RUN HEALTH INSURANCE, AND THEIR RELENTLESS ATTACKS ON ANYTHING THAT PRESIDENT BARACK OBAMA DOES OR SAYS- NOT BECAUSE ITS FOR THE GOOD FOR AMERICA---BUT SOLEY BECAUSE ITS FROM THE PRESIDENT OR THE DEMOCRATIC HOUSE/SENATE.


Sunday, November 1, 2009

ITS BEEN A WHILE--SOUNDS EASY BUT WRITING DAILY IS A BITCH

FIRST OFF--MY APOLOGIES FOR THOSE WHO CHECK IN ONLY TO FIND NO RECENT RANTS, RAVES OR ANYTHING.
its been a whirlwind of inactivity since i got back from my road trip to montana and i was just not up to it emotionally. me-being a person who's personality is that of a roller coaster, just couldn't find the mental time to put my thoughts to print. its like letting the dishes or the laundry pile up and everyday u see the mess you tell yourself that tomorrow you will clean up and then tomorrow comes and you just don't have the energy to do the dishes and on and on it goes. every time i am on here and go thru my bookmarks i see -RANTS & RAVES FROM MY GAY SIDE- and go thru the same thing.

SOOOOOOO-

I HAVE DECIDED THAT THE EASIER WAY OF DEALING WITH A DAILY BLOG IS TO BREAK IT UP INTO SECTIONS. I THINK IT WILL GO SOMETHING LIKE THIS----
MONDAYS=rants on some current affairs, videos or shared articles from other sources
TUESDAYS=videos of any and all nature- be they funny, sick, sexy, newsy, etc
WEDNESDAYS=raves on anything and everything
THURSDAYS=back to rants, etc
FRIDAYS=reviews of movies, books, anything i've done, been to, seen, ate. maybe even a recipe or two
SATURDAYS and SUNDAYS= lite blogging of anything that comes to mind.

now that i've said that, i do reserve the right to rant/rave anytime it hits me. but, i think with this format, i will have the time to gather info and put it to paper.

also, i do invite everyone to join in and comment on this, that, or the other.